Pride Patch Tutorials

Six digitally-created versions of cross stitch pride patches, arranged in two rows of three, against a background of a textured partially-translucent aromantic pride flag. Text between the two rows reads Aro Pride Patches in black type. Patches include a rectangular patch in aroflux zigzag stripes, an idemromantic heart, an aro flag text patch reading "aro", a square in quoiromantic stripes, an arrow design in allo-aro colours and a second arrow in nebularomantic colours.

As a disabled creative on a limited income, I can’t do a Rowan Ross and order pride-flag mugs online. Nor is pride merch widely available for many of my identities. The only way for me to display my aromantic pride is to make it myself–so I experimented with my own aro cross-stitch patches, given that cross stitch is an easy form of hand embroidery and I owned most of the needed supplies.

An assortment of cross stitch patches with wide hand-embroidered borders in rectangluar and square shapes. Patches include various aromantic-spectrum flags in straight and zigzag lines, text patches "aro", "abro", "alloaro" and "aroace", arrow patches, patches with pan/ply hearts atop the allo-aro flag, heart-shaped patches and the A in aro, abro and allo-aro colours.

These patches are (mostly) quick to sew, involve materials that can be found at some dollar shops and most craft stores, and can be attached to your bags, coats and hats. With the addition of a safety pin at the back, they can even become badges!

Tutorial One: Basic Stripes

In which I cover my preferred materials and sources, working out the size of your patch, sewing stripes and edging your patch.

Two square four-stripe cross stitch pride flag patterns, striped in the colours of the black/green/turquoise/light grey quoiromantic flag and the dark blue/light blue/white/teal oriented aro-ace flag.

Tutorial Two: Zigzag Stripes

In which I cover the steps for cross stitching a horizontal zigzag stripe as well as attaching your patch to a bag and sewing a safety pin to the back of your patch.

Two rectangular cross stitch pride flag patterns with zigzag stripes, striped in the colours of the dark green/light green/white/yellow/gold allo-aro flag and the dark green/light green/white/grey/black aromantic flag. The allo-aro flag patch has a simple wide stripe with no repetitions; the aromantic flag patch has many narrow stripes repeated down the patch.

Tutorial Three: Aro Text, Part One

In which I provide the pattern for the words “aro” and “alloaro” worked in a five-stripe flag design.

Cross stitch pattern with the text alloaro in block lettering, striped in the colours of the dark green/light gren/white/yellow/gold allo-aro flag, on a purple background.

Tutorial Four: Aro Text, Part Two

In which I provide the pattern for the word “aroace” worked in a four-stripe and five-stripe flag design.

Cross stitch pattern with the text aroace in block lettering, striped in the colours of the orange/yellow/white/blue/navy aroace flag, on a light blue-grey background.

Tutorial Five: Aro Arrows

In which I provide four stripe and seven-stripe arrow patch patterns, along with guides for various ways to modify or customise said patterns.

A cross stitch pattern for an arrow design with an elongated triangle arrowhead in grey, a tan shaft, nebularomantic pride flag fletching, nebularomantic binding where shaft meets arrowhead, and a purple background. Outline stitching in a dark grey frames the arrowhead, with lighter grey lines of back stitching running down the head; the tan shaft is framed in a darker tan; and purple stitches outline the fletching and binding.

Tutorial Six: Pride Hearts

In which I provide heart-shaped patch patterns for horizontal three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine and ten stripe flags, sewn both upside up (for those wishing to emphasise love) and upside down (for loveless aros and those wishing to de-centre love in their pride).

A cross stitch pattern for three different heart patches. The left-hand patch has four stripes, in the colours of the asexual flag, and is framed in a darker purple outline. The middle patch has five stripes, in the colours of the aromantic flag, and is framed in a darker green outline. The right-hand patch has ten stripes, in the colours of an a-spec flag, and is framed in a lighter purple outline.

Tutorial Seven: Aro Text, Part Three

In which I provide the patterns for the word “aro” and two variations on the letter “a”, all worked in a five-stripe flag design.

Tutorial Eight: Pride Patch Jacket

In which I attach forty patches made with the prior tutorials to a denim jacket, discussing materials, layout, techniques and tips.

Pattern Gallery

All currently-posted patterns can be found below:

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