Pride Patch Tutorial: Aromantic Alphabet, Part Five

Six digitally-created versions of cross stitch pride patches, arranged in two rows of three, against a background of a textured partially-translucent aromantic pride flag. Text between the two rows reads Aro Pride Patches in black type. Patches include a rectangular patch in aroflux zigzag stripes, an idemromantic heart, an aro flag text patch reading "aro", a square in quoiromantic stripes, an arrow design in allo-aro colours and a second arrow in nebularomantic colours.

Are you an aromantic or otherwise queer person wanting more text patch designs for seven-stripe pride flags? Do you crave patches depicting longer words like “aromantic asexual”? I now have a complete alphabet to accompany my many seven-stripe block text patterns. Plus patterns for the words “aromantic”, “asexual”, “aplatonic” … and even more a-spectrum terms!

Five cross stitch text patches sitting on a blue microfibre blanket. From top to bottom: "pride" in nebularomantic colours on an aqua background; "arovague" in arovague colours on a black background; "aro" in aromantic-spectrum colours on a green background; "aaa" in allosexual-aromantic agender colours on a light gold background; and "alloaro" in allo-aro spectrum colours on a purple-pink background. All letters are capitals in a blockish style of text with rounded corners. Each letter is outlined in backstitch. Every patch is finished with a buttonhole stitch edging in colours similar to (lighter or darker than) their background colour.

You’ll need familiarity with cross stitch (full crosses and fractional stitches) and backstitch to make unedged patches, along with buttonhole stitch to make the edged patches shown above. The first instalment of this patch tutorial series demonstrates cross and blanket/buttonhole stitch, while the second covers backstitch. While these patterns use fractional stitches to round off most letters, they can be omitted for a more pixellated look.

Folks after patterns suitable for five and ten-stripe pride flags should check out my other Aro Alphabet posts!

Notes on Pattern Structure

Full coloured blocks indicate a full cross stitch. Letter outlines indicate backstitch.

Blocks divided on the diagonal by a line of backstitch, each half a different colour, indicate quarter stitches. Please see my first text tutorial and my pride text tutorial for more information on backstitching outlines and placing quarter/fractional stitches.

Space for edging your patch is not shown in the patterns below. You’ll need to allow additional blocks for this when cutting your swatch, depending on how narrow or thick you like your edges.

Letter Patterns: Alphabet

All letters are fourteen blocks/stitches high, comprising seven horizontal stripes formed by two rows of stitches.

All letters save “I”, “M” and “W” are nine blocks/stitches wide:

An alphabet cross stitch patch pattern striped in the colours of the maroon/coral/pink/white/cyan/blue/navy nebularomantic flag. Pattern is set on a light grey grid. Letters are outlined, indicating backstitch, in light purple. Letters shown include upper-case a, b, c, d, e, f, g, h and i.

The letter “I” is three stitches wide, while “M” and “W” are twelve stitches wide.

An alphabet cross stitch patch pattern striped in the colours of the maroon/coral/pink/white/cyan/blue/navy nebularomantic flag. Pattern is set on a light grey grid. Letters are outlined, indicating backstitch, in light purple. Letters shown include upper-case j, k, l, m, n, o, p, q and r.

These patterns show two blocks/stitches’ space between each letter, as this is the tracking I use for the majority of my text designs. This can be increased or decreased as preferred.

An alphabet cross stitch patch pattern striped in the colours of the maroon/coral/pink/white/cyan/blue/navy nebularomantic flag. Pattern is set on a light grey grid. Letters are outlined, indicating backstitch, in light purple. Letters shown include upper-case s, t, u, v, w, x, y and z.

While these letters can be divided into fourteen stripes, or sewn in various combinations of wider and narrower stripes that fit a fourteen-block base, they aren’t suitable for other flag styles if you wish accurately-even stripes.

Text Patterns: A-Spec

While I create these alphabets so you can make any pride-themed text, I’ve expanded my fourteen-block pattern collection with a few more ready-to-stitch identity terms!

Aplatonic

Cross stitch pattern with the text aplatonic in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the seven-stripe yellow/cream/purple/red/orange/pink/light blue aplatonic spectrum flag. Letters are outlined in blue on a dark purple background.

The seven-stripe “aplatonic” pattern fits a rectangle 95 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want a 98 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

Aromantic

Cross stitch pattern with the text aromantic in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the seven-stripe green/aqua/purple/red/orange/pink/light blue aromantic spectrum flag. Letters are outlined in mint on a dark teal-green background.

The seven-stripe “aromantic” pattern fits a rectangle 98 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want a 101 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

Arovague

Cross stitch pattern with the text arovague in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the green/light green/light grey/light green/green arovague flag. Letters are outlined in dark green on a dark black-green background.

The five-stripe “arovague” pattern fits a rectangle 90 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want a 93 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

Asexual

Cross stitch pattern with the text asexual in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the seven-stripe black/grey/purple/red/orange/pink/cyan asexual spectrum flag. Letters are outlined in light purple on a dark black-purple background.

The seven-stripe “asexual” pattern fits a rectangle 79 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want an 82 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

Cassflux

Cross stitch pattern with the text cassflux in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the black/black-olive/olive/olive-orange/orange/coral/pink cassflux flag. Letters are outlined in dark green on a light pink background.

The seven-stripe “cassflux” pattern fits a rectangle 90 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want a 93 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

Iamvano

Cross stitch pattern with the text iamvano in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the light grey/grey/red/maroon/red/grey/light grey iamvano flag. Letters are outlined in dark green on an olive background.

The seven-stripe “iamvano” pattern fits a rectangle 76 stitches wide and 18 stitches high. Assuming a three stitch border, as for my other patches, this means you’ll want a 79 x 21 block swatch plus any excess (if used unmodified).

All patterns use a two-block tracking between letters as well as two rows/columns of background stitching spaced above, below and beside the text. You may like to decrease or increase either, especially between certain letters or words, but consistent tracking and/or spacing makes it easier to estimate swatch size and create new patterns from existing ones.

Please see my first alphabet tutorial for more information on tracking and spacing. Additionally, my pattern gallery has more patterns to use for estimating fabric swatches or as a base for custom patterns.

Combining and Customising Patterns

My “aaa” patch (using my allo-aro agender flag) is easily made with my seven-stripe “aro” pattern by swapping the letters “r” and “o” for “a”.

The new seven-stripe “aromantic”, “asexual” and “aplatonic” patterns–along with my older “aroace” and “acearo” patterns–can be combined with shorter patterns to create complete a-spec terms. (Again, I created the seven-stripe “aromantic” and “aro” patterns largely for use with other aromantic-spectrum identity flags.) As every pattern has a two block background column both preceding the first letter and following the last, remember to delete one when merging patterns to preserve the tracking between letters. You may also need to delete the first “a” (another nine blocks) in “aromantic”, “asexual” and “aplatonic” when creating single-word patches for terms like “nebularomantic” or “myrsexual”.

Custom patterns for identities comprising two or more separated words–like “aroace agender“–may like to use my seven-stripe “non sam aro” pattern as a spacing guide. I leave five blocks’ space between words, but you may prefer otherwise!

A-spec identities with fourteen-block patterns suitable for combining include:

As words like “iamvanoromantic” occupy significant fabric real estate, you may want to check out my guide to stitching longer text patches. 10-count and 11-count aida is best avoided if you’re planning to attach your patch to smaller bags or garments, while 18-count aida (used on my “alloaro” patch photographed above) creates a thinner, shorter patch.

Cross stitch pattern with the text arovague in block-style, capital lettering, striped in the colours of the green/light green/light grey/light green/green arovague flag. Letters are outlined in dark green on a dark black-green background.

To further reduce patch size, you can omit the two-block background-colour stitches above, below and beside the letters. This results in a patch four blocks shorter and narrower–which also lessens time spent on border stitching! When omitting these framing background-colour stitches, as shown on my “alloaro” and “arovague” patches, the buttonhole stitch border sits flush against my lettering. To keep my backstitches from being caught beneath my edging stitches, I stitch the letter outlining–or at least those sections abutting the border–last. As I struggle with keeping areas of adjoining stitches neat, stitching the backstitch letter outline over these sections helps create a tidier-looking (or less uneven) patch.

Two in-progress cross stitch text patches sitting on a blue microfibre blanket. From top to bottom: "arovague" in arovague colours on a black background; "aaa" in allosexual-aromantic agender colours on a light gold background. All letters are capitals in a blockish style of text with rounded corners. Each letter is outlined in backstitch. Every patch is stitched on white aida, with a three-block width of raw fabric around the letter and background stitching.

As the buttonhole-stitch border takes a significant amount of time and thread when sewing large patches, you might prefer these alternate border techniques.

This completes my Aro Week pride craft tutorials, but I’m excited to get started on patterns for nine-stripe flags. I need a “loveless aro” text patch on my patch jacket!

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